The Birthday - 21 years of love,hate,song,dance,work,play and acads!!! and i am loving it

Birthdays are very special to people and everyone has a different way of celebrating it. I  just do it like anyone else,I PARTY!!!
My birthdays in Pilani, for the past two years have been really great and I  have have come to learn a few things.The only reason you are special on your birthday is because someone around you feels that he/she is grateful to have you with them.Thats it !! and  I acknowledge that.

Ever since my 1st year, I have had some special memories attached to each of my birthdays.I have been gifted condoms, made to learn strip tease and also made to pole dance.I have been given great cards, with half naked men on it,pretty lady -pen stands and some really cool speakers too.The story continues with some videos and controversial stories attached to each  of the three16th January(s).

Getting hit with boots,shoes and chappals has always been a highlight of my birthdays, but usually I get left out for a little, while my other fellows get the better dose. "It pays off to WEAR an extra pair of jeans".
As for my friends, nobody really shows affection outside, but on this special day nobody forgets to pen down nice things about me(though very very few) and I am actually grateful for that.

I  have always had a habit of keeping counts of  the number of people who wish me on my birthday and as far as I remember distinctly, it has gone up from 17 to31 to 49 to 63, 77 to 101  (that was last year).This year I I thought of not keeping a count, but I am sure they are more than 150.Probably because, more of friends are on facebook, and hence more connectivity.So,even if you really don't know me but were added as a friend on facebook, you would have wished me.

New birthdays come with new resolutions, but the motivation to fulfill them always stays the same, that of a one year old.I have had loads of them written down.Some from my 6th-7th grade were--doing well in exams  and never missing the bus (nerdy).All have been a part of this resolution journey.Life has grown into multiple dimensions, but the theme problem still remains the same. This year again resolutions stand as, doing better in acads and going for half the classes.(still as difficult as ever).I am hoping to see them through to the next time.(like always)

21 years have passed, I have had hundreds of friends who have come,gone and stayed.And though,my birthdays have had different sets of people at different times, I have come to realize the following:

Though, gifts have become of less importance but the excitement to receive one  is still the same.

Though, the anticipation of the song "Happy Birthday" is lesser, but the enthusiasm of celebration is still the same. 

And finally , though everyone is here for the cake, the smile on their face is still for the same reason.(Its me) 

Thats why I love birthdays ..cause I am a reason for their smiles.

The orbit theory

I often feel that the best place to start writing is at home .

This starts the explanation of a lot of things.So many times  in life  we feel, maybe I should not have told him this or maybe is that person actually the way I think he should be? and so on ...

Well, there is a possibility of error between when we judge people and how we speculate them to be  with us. We simply start with the basic fact - as the name suggests 'the orbit theory',  talks about the analogy between the real orbits of the solar system , where orbit of each planet is like a  relationship and as we go on we simply recreate their relation with the sun  in reference to other people's with ours ,It also helps us classify our relationship status with others.

Just like the Sun, we also are supposed to have a CORE NUCLEUS Body .this nucleus body basically consists of people all around you , the closest to you today as of this moment and will be for maximum period of time of your life. As it is the core NUCLEUS , it has very high energy just like the Sun. There are heated arguments, there is a lot of interaction and also too many secrets to be shared.

As a science student , we are told that the movement of the sun is very small. ( All the others as know it as a stationary object).But  it is not my friend and in a very lay science man language, I would like to put it .A planet and Sun revolve around each other's centre of mass, but as the mass of the sun is very high therefore, the centre of mass of the 2 big objects lies almost (as u can say)  inside the sun ..so it seems the planets move around it.

Anyway , coming back to the point SUN DOES NOT MOVE and so creating a parody, The people who we place in the core of our life should be or rather are the ones who do not change much with time or whose relationship with you is certain enough to change, gradual change is inevitable. But with respect to the larger picture like the sun, in the small course of time it can be considered  constant.

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This helps in deciding who should be more important to you, than who "makes life easier".The orbit theory does not end here, its a start of a very complex formulation of the factors effecting relations between people.

The very supplement starts when we go into the specific orbits of the orbit theory,

Mercury orbit: The first orbit and the most complex one too.Just like the planet with the shortest orbit and fastest speed(not sure thou).It should contain the next set of closest people around you ,the ones  who will evolve finally to fall into the nucleus.

PS note : No of people in the lower orbit should be lesser than in the one above.

So, the rule is simple about putting people in orbits, as an order of their attachment with you and things should work out soon.So, you know who to not go overboard with .Also, till what level of understanding is this relationship of friend,lover,mentor etc.

There are various others situations described on the basis of this orbit theory and its application in terms of understanding your limitations and others too are useful.


And this would highlighted in the posts on this thread, with similar understandings and views.